when men explain how women admitting they've been victimized

[2ndthyme]

affects men.

During Robbins' speech, he told the audience that the #MeToo movement is an excuse for women to use "victimhood" to help them gain "significance"—and it gets worse from there.

"I was just with someone the other day, very famous man, very powerful man. He's saying how stressed he is because he interviewed three people that day—one was a woman, two were men," Robbins explained. "The woman was better qualified, but she was very attractive, and he knew, 'I can't have her around, because it's too big of a risk.' And he hired somebody else. I've had a dozen men tell me this."

https://www.glamour.com/story/tony-r...burke-response

Incredible.. I've read this all somewhere before..


Maybe stop telling us how we're going to be seen and treated by sexist pigs and talk to the pigs about their behaviour? Robbins and his sudden awakening can bite me, apparently his financial ppl explained how many of his paying audience is a victim.

[2ndthyme]

A few weeks ago, my daughter called to tell me she was being stalked on campus. And this older male student tried to corner her in a lab. She was so creeped out that she made a report to the deans office.

How many of us are wondering if she was over reacting? Are you identifying with the poor sap who just wanted to approach his crush and isn't suave enough to do it without sweaty awkwardness? Are you wondering if she was being an unapproachable b#tch?

What if all a young girl has, to protect against assault, is her gut instinct? Would you have advised her to be kind? Maybe slip away before she finds herself alone with him? Live carefully and secretly, and watch the shadows? wait until she's accosted and be physical and violent?

My daughter reported him, the college put a no contact order on him and changed her to a different lab time. Because what matters is her feeling safe, period.

Young women are raised and trained to mother everyone, to worry and empathize with the fragile egos and their future ability to have an erection.

Sounds harsh to you doesn't it? No really thats our lives, responsibility for making men feel ok when they screw up. My daughter did the right thing, she took care of HER needs to feel comfortable. She and no woman is responsible for how a man feels.

[2ndthyme]

My friend just told me this morning that her daughter is having problems at work. Theres a guy, comes in and hugs her.. she believes he might be mentally disabled. She asked her managment to step in and they said its up to her to handle it. She's left trying to find a way to carefully tell this man to stop touching her.. She's struggling with guilt of hurting his feelings over her own needs of feeling unviolated. She feels trapped and doesnt know what to do.


she's stressed, crying after work everyday.. feelingblike she might have to change jobs to escape this very uncomfortably situation. I advised my friend to tell her, be a b*tch, tell him once clearly in front of witnesses not to touch her anymore. period. Then if it ever happened again, she files harrasment and the company becomes responsible because they have a legal responsibility .

[2ndthyme]

are you chuckling about snowflake liberal feminazis yet???

Women not kicking men in the balls doesnt make you feel proud and pumping your fist yelling hells yeah..

Are you thinking about millenials and safe places? with a smirk

Or can I tell you we should all be cheering, strong young women demanding to feel safe in their lives using the proper systems to make that happen before anyone could be harmed? Does that make them whiney in your mind?

I'm curious, mostly because I believe old mindsets are what continues old ways..

Literally, my husband was shunned by a lot of men in our area when he reported that a man had molested our daughter to the police instead of just beating the guy or shooting him.. Is that some kind of projection? Or vicarious desire? what is that?

[Billy_Rightwing]

All I can say my Squaw would kick them in the balls. How about a loud ass chewing for doing that. Not all women are weak knees.

[Dork]

No MAN is responsible for how a female feels and feelings are bull****, if a woman is in danger, has a stalker or is being assulted then by all means go to the law and let them work it while the female takes steps on her own.

NOBODY should go to the cops cuz they feel threatened feel like somebody is looking at them....that's bull**** and wanting to be taken care of instead of acting like an adult...

Go talk to that guy in class, see what he says, don't be a chicken **** and run to the dean whining and crying over your feelings....

I feel females who do that are insecure, childish, and want attention.....

A few weeks ago, my daughter called to tell me she was being stalked on campus. And this older male student tried to corner her in a lab. She was so creeped out that she made a report to the deans office.

How many of us are wondering if she was over reacting? Are you identifying with the poor sap who just wanted to approach his crush and isn't suave enough to do it without sweaty awkwardness? Are you wondering if she was being an unapproachable b#tch?

What if all a young girl has, to protect against assault, is her gut instinct? Would you have advised her to be kind? Maybe slip away before she finds herself alone with him? Live carefully and secretly, and watch the shadows? wait until she's accosted and be physical and violent?

My daughter reported him, the college put a no contact order on him and changed her to a different lab time. Because what matters is her feeling safe, period.

Young women are raised and trained to mother everyone, to worry and empathize with the fragile egos and their future ability to have an erection.

Sounds harsh to you doesn't it? No really thats our lives, responsibility for making men feel ok when they screw up. My daughter did the right thing, she took care of HER needs to feel comfortable. She and no woman is responsible for how a man feels.

[Dork]

Guess she needs to "MAN" up and actually tell the person to stop, to not do it and actually be responsible for herself and her actions instead of hiding behind somebody else.....

My friend just told me this morning that her daughter is having problems at work. Theres a guy, comes in and hugs her.. she believes he might be mentally disabled. She asked her managment to step in and they said its up to her to handle it. She's left trying to find a way to carefully tell this man to stop touching her.. She's struggling with guilt of hurting his feelings over her own needs of feeling unviolated. She feels trapped and doesnt know what to do.


she's stressed, crying after work everyday.. feelingblike she might have to change jobs to escape this very uncomfortably situation. I advised my friend to tell her, be a b*tch, tell him once clearly in front of witnesses not to touch her anymore. period. Then if it ever happened again, she files harrasment and the company becomes responsible because they have a legal responsibility .

[Dork]

Actually I feel sorry for you....and people like you that are unable to take personal responsibility.....unable to stand up for themselves.....and instead want to be a victim and want to be offended, hurt, bothered and allowing your feelings to be more important that facts......

I"ve got 2 daughters, you have no idea what the good old boy life is like till you live in Wyoming....both daughters have had issues, both daughters have tackled the issues head on....and then also notified authorities with facts, data, pictures, hard proof and not feelings.

On campus one daughter almost was assaulted, but she almost ripped the guys balls off she grabbed and twisted do hard & he ended up in a emergency room & she had done enough damage they needed to operate on him....Guess what, want proof and not feelings...send the ****er to the ER....not feelings...hard core proof......

One daughter is armed with a 9mm * a Spyderco matriarch and the other has pepper spray and a couple steel bodies pens along with a spyderco matriarch 2.......they also have other tools, they are not stupid, have taken steps to not be a victim and hurt the person who thinks he or she can hurt them.....

Life sucks, your NOT guaranteed protection, the police are not there to protect you, but to take reports and investigate....you don't have the right to feeling safe, that's something you make on your own.....

One daughter lives in a apartment complex, her x boyfriend was having issues and he was watching her......she borrowed my night vision scope and took pictures of his watching her as she was watching him from a friends car...with erh Glock 19 9mm on her person....she has a AR15 and can dump a 30rd mag into a man sized chest from 7 inches to 70 yards in seconds......

She is protected by a evil black rifle....and feels secure in how to use it and the use of deadly force as it's just another tool in the toolbox.......

X boyfriend found out about the pictures the hard way, when the cops came to arrest him.....

are you chuckling about snowflake liberal feminazis yet???

Women not kicking men in the balls doesnt make you feel proud and pumping your fist yelling hells yeah..

Are you thinking about millenials and safe places? with a smirk

Or can I tell you we should all be cheering, strong young women demanding to feel safe in their lives using the proper systems to make that happen before anyone could be harmed? Does that make them whiney in your mind?

I'm curious, mostly because I believe old mindsets are what continues old ways..

Literally, my husband was shunned by a lot of men in our area when he reported that a man had molested our daughter to the police instead of just beating the guy or shooting him.. Is that some kind of projection? Or vicarious desire? what is that?

[Dork]

All I can say my Squaw would kick them in the balls. How about a loud ass chewing for doing that. Not all women are weak knees.

My "Squaw" is a liberal Canadian who slowly learned to not be a victim due to liberal politics and feminazis bull****......but it's hard as the sheep mentality in such people is ingrained...

Both daughters not so much......they have seen the feminazis bull****, been exposed to it and have learned to think and choose on their own....they refuse to be food and professional whining victims....

[2ndthyme]

let me just point out something to you all, what you think are the best ways, have been done since the beginning of time. And they haven't changed society's problem with men just being men...

[Dork]

let me just point out something to you all, what you think are the best ways, have been done since the beginning of time. And they haven't changed society's problem with men just being men...

Typical liberal though process, men are the problem, and women should not have any personal responsibility.....

And women's feelings are more important that fact based data

I feel your oppressing me with your female superiority attitude and I'm highly offended....and I feel really sorry for your beta male husband who hid behind your skirts......

[wacojoe]

Where did all that come from, 2T? Reread what you posted. Does that sound like a personal attack on every man on this board to you? It certainly does to me...and with no basis. I am trying to think of a post or posts in which any of us have written anything dismissing or encouraging attacks or sexual aggressions on women. Came up with nothing, but I have not read every post here. Perhaps I missed something that triggered your outrage and connections to those of us here. Take this as coming from a man who has never been sexually aggressive toward any woman without invitation in my life, that your accusation in my direction is misplaced.

I empathize with your daughter, but if you are asking me to somehow own those actions as mine just because I share the sex of the perp, then you are way off base. It’s true all men are jerks in some respect, but not necessarily sexual predators.

[TxMusky]

I feel the same as Waco, I raised 3 daughters and am raising my 12 YO granddaughter, if there is something I teach them, it is not to take crap off of any guy or girl for that matter. Since being gay is now acceptable, they also have to worry about the dykes as well.

I do not think that blaming ALL men for the actions of a few scumbags is the right way to handle things. There are still some gentlemen left and they will step in and help a lady if she is being threatened, of course many gentlemen have been scared off because they do not want to get involved because they might get blamed for just trying to help.

I think society has become so used to protesting things, that nobody is safe anymore. Confronting a person with some backup is a good way to find out if the person is really up to no good, or if it is just a case of mistaken paranoia. Reporting a person to the authorities or cops is okay if they have overstepped some boundaries, but if he or she, is innocent of what was charged, it could stay on their permanent record forever. I do not want to see a young lady or woman hurt, but there are people out there who will do things just to be spiteful, that is wrong too.

[mgrist]

I was in prison with dozens of people that were there because of woman like you. They didn't do a damn thing except piss off a woman. I know what you can do I've seen it many times, you can get men fired, locked up, labeled and the list goes on. Now you want me to be responsible because you've raised your daughter to hate men, to believe that they are all evil and that the only thing they want is sex. I've lost my mother and twin sister to sick perverts and I'm not near as jaded as you are. We are not all alike just like all woman are not like you, thank god!

[2ndthyme]

I'm really curious how you guys jump from harrassment rules at a workplace or school to ppl lying to the police.

BTW, that guy we reported? Was in a position of responsibility over minors, failed the lie detector when they asked him if he trapped my daughter in a fire truck and forced his hands into her pants.. he decided to accept the plea deal that sent him in for a year and put him on the sex offender list for life.
I'm betting he told his friends in prison how he was wronged by a lying woman